The mother who suddenly loses her son | To learn what a ... Mother!
another woman, who never
will understand "what she found and took," called my dear mother!
The controversial, difficult in-laws are usually those mothers who are spastic, jealous, annoying, grumpy and everything else evil can put the human mind ...
The worst thing is that ... never to accept as the other half of the Kanakari!
It should certainly be clear here that all the father-not the same. Of course there are mothers who see their daughter as their second child and hug the first time with anysterovouli and sincere love. Accept it as a new future of their families and struggling on how to support and assist the couple in the difficult first steps. It is mothers who think smart and understand that above all it is important to the happiness of their child, which can only come through a successful and solid marriage.
Come But unfortunately this is not the norm!
All of us have heard or worse, live, many examples of mother-unbearable, countless would say. The reason that I write to you for the "bad mother", but in my opinion to address this relationship.
The mother (mother) learns from her son that he has asked his girlfriend to marry! So begins telling him different, like "you're young, you dolls and she does not seem so appropriate" or "you, my boy, you deserve to find a better" etc!
From here begins the struggle "wrestling" with the candidate bride!
-Begin remarks: "Angela get white dress, long and rather narrow!"
- But you know, even tentatively Angeliki, I would be Kontoula front and long tail, the other I love your dress in a color!
- Apapaa. No girl my color - she thought of her "well I say that it does for us is" - you know the color got my sister the bride and all the fun!
He thought the poor Angeliki "now what to tell her, go not to spoil and indulge quarrel, yet it became bride mother!"
- Okay we'll see only white dresses mother!
Joy the other Hmm I made I spent my own!
Angelica the groom. "Honey, your mom does not want to paint too my dream was to get colored dress!"
- Let my heart, let us do a favor, a son has and wants the marriage to him as he dreams all these years!
- Yes, but I dream of the year, anyway I saw a pretty good wedding and we booked!
- Tasos, come a time when I want, crying mother-mother.
- Define what you want asks the son.
- I want to put the woman in your position and not to ask such absurd things!
- So asks you ask?
- Well, we went for a wedding and he was I suffer heart attacks as those asking to see! Something furious with the whole back bare and too close, the tit almost out and so on, ah what can I say young man, became laughing stock!
- But I stayed told me that just wanted to color and Not you, what's all on you now?
- What do you think now, my boy, me or her? Complain mother. Since when she took over the position from which me, tell me? Can the mom to lie or say things that did not happen, why do I have any reason! (Has only been to the prosecution off of this wants). To collect it, as you put it soon came word that supposedly only that he wanted to draw I stayed bad! I know how bad I felt and how much to depreciate over the shops in the way she talked! But do not look to say, I do not put you to scold!
All of these come and go throughout the course of preparing the wedding!
From this time the mother will alter and puts much more than what he said or wanted to make the bride. It always puts words to her son and reduces the bride, where they found themselves
We will always require the son to believe this and not the 'other' will always seek to direct and to have him near her as possible.
But this mother-to, I believe that each bride to put in the right position from the start! For how to do this - when you drop the lottery - I'll give you some information that I consider essential for making a good start and build a possible healthier, equitable and harmonious relationship!
Never go shopping, you two, at least initially. We aspire to have with your son and your husband. So, can not you criticize later. We say in the beginning, because everything from the beginning considered, there still are weak to put in place. There, we constantly for her son and husband our us!
We must speak with him every night about what we want to do or make, and to ask you is what you will notice in the family, put him in front in the battle you do not catch the shots!
When you speak badly and derogatory show patience and turn back. But when the good you see your own, get the style and tell the complainer with a very hurt your mother, explained what I said without sauces, however, is not what you should do. He wants a little mannerism and complain but always the truth!
When in front of nails left speechless. When you are alone, explained that these are correct and that you did not ever talked badly. Put him in your position by saying, "if I spoke my father so, how would you feel?" Show it, that is to reduce unnecessary!
Say everything that happens in your own good! But beware only true because the devil has many legs!
I could write you many such, since I have been married for 14 years and even got married at a young age, only in my twenty years, so understand that I have a long experience with mother. But a tip that my mother gave me, of course, when I gave it and for many years after I could not figure out ... .. What is it:
"To love his mother because you gave birth and raised the boy you love and want for your husband!"
will understand "what she found and took," called my dear mother!
The controversial, difficult in-laws are usually those mothers who are spastic, jealous, annoying, grumpy and everything else evil can put the human mind ...
The worst thing is that ... never to accept as the other half of the Kanakari!
It should certainly be clear here that all the father-not the same. Of course there are mothers who see their daughter as their second child and hug the first time with anysterovouli and sincere love. Accept it as a new future of their families and struggling on how to support and assist the couple in the difficult first steps. It is mothers who think smart and understand that above all it is important to the happiness of their child, which can only come through a successful and solid marriage.
Come But unfortunately this is not the norm!
All of us have heard or worse, live, many examples of mother-unbearable, countless would say. The reason that I write to you for the "bad mother", but in my opinion to address this relationship.
The mother (mother) learns from her son that he has asked his girlfriend to marry! So begins telling him different, like "you're young, you dolls and she does not seem so appropriate" or "you, my boy, you deserve to find a better" etc!
From here begins the struggle "wrestling" with the candidate bride!
-Begin remarks: "Angela get white dress, long and rather narrow!"
- But you know, even tentatively Angeliki, I would be Kontoula front and long tail, the other I love your dress in a color!
- Apapaa. No girl my color - she thought of her "well I say that it does for us is" - you know the color got my sister the bride and all the fun!
He thought the poor Angeliki "now what to tell her, go not to spoil and indulge quarrel, yet it became bride mother!"
- Okay we'll see only white dresses mother!
Joy the other Hmm I made I spent my own!
Angelica the groom. "Honey, your mom does not want to paint too my dream was to get colored dress!"
- Let my heart, let us do a favor, a son has and wants the marriage to him as he dreams all these years!
- Yes, but I dream of the year, anyway I saw a pretty good wedding and we booked!
- Tasos, come a time when I want, crying mother-mother.
- Define what you want asks the son.
- I want to put the woman in your position and not to ask such absurd things!
- So asks you ask?
- Well, we went for a wedding and he was I suffer heart attacks as those asking to see! Something furious with the whole back bare and too close, the tit almost out and so on, ah what can I say young man, became laughing stock!
- But I stayed told me that just wanted to color and Not you, what's all on you now?
- What do you think now, my boy, me or her? Complain mother. Since when she took over the position from which me, tell me? Can the mom to lie or say things that did not happen, why do I have any reason! (Has only been to the prosecution off of this wants). To collect it, as you put it soon came word that supposedly only that he wanted to draw I stayed bad! I know how bad I felt and how much to depreciate over the shops in the way she talked! But do not look to say, I do not put you to scold!
All of these come and go throughout the course of preparing the wedding!
From this time the mother will alter and puts much more than what he said or wanted to make the bride. It always puts words to her son and reduces the bride, where they found themselves
We will always require the son to believe this and not the 'other' will always seek to direct and to have him near her as possible.
But this mother-to, I believe that each bride to put in the right position from the start! For how to do this - when you drop the lottery - I'll give you some information that I consider essential for making a good start and build a possible healthier, equitable and harmonious relationship!
Never go shopping, you two, at least initially. We aspire to have with your son and your husband. So, can not you criticize later. We say in the beginning, because everything from the beginning considered, there still are weak to put in place. There, we constantly for her son and husband our us!
We must speak with him every night about what we want to do or make, and to ask you is what you will notice in the family, put him in front in the battle you do not catch the shots!
When you speak badly and derogatory show patience and turn back. But when the good you see your own, get the style and tell the complainer with a very hurt your mother, explained what I said without sauces, however, is not what you should do. He wants a little mannerism and complain but always the truth!
When in front of nails left speechless. When you are alone, explained that these are correct and that you did not ever talked badly. Put him in your position by saying, "if I spoke my father so, how would you feel?" Show it, that is to reduce unnecessary!
Say everything that happens in your own good! But beware only true because the devil has many legs!
I could write you many such, since I have been married for 14 years and even got married at a young age, only in my twenty years, so understand that I have a long experience with mother. But a tip that my mother gave me, of course, when I gave it and for many years after I could not figure out ... .. What is it:
"To love his mother because you gave birth and raised the boy you love and want for your husband!"
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